Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Why are board members afraid of development?

I have had several conversations in the last couple of weeks that are variations on the same theme: Why is it so difficult to get board members of non-profit organizations to help with development work?

It seems to me there are two main reasons. First, we often don't ask. Someone once told me that the number one predictor of someone not giving to a charity is that he wasn't asked. The same holds true for action by board members. If we don't ask them to get involved in development work, they won't. Of course, you don't need to ask them directly. Try asking them to call people to thank them for their gifts. Or try asking them to host a parlor meeting at their home to cultivate some prospective donors. Once they've participated in activities like these you can tell them they've been helping with development!

This brings us to the second reason: board members are afraid of development work. Even the most sophisticated (about development) board members harbor the fear that when they are asked to help in this area it means they are going to be handed fifteen or twenty names of people they have never met and asked to solicit each of them for thousands of dollars (or more!) That's why it is so important to ask board members to participate in the kinds of activities mentioned above. And its important to be sure they understand that development really is about the cultivation process - building relationships with people so they feel more connected to the organization. People make gifts to the organizations they feel connected to, and they make large gifts to the organizations they feel most connected to. If board members are hesitant about "doing development work", just ask them to help people feel connected to your organization. When the time comes for the solicitation, they won't panic because it will seem like a natural part of the relationship building.

How can you help your board members become more comfortable with their development role? If you need some additional suggestions, please give me a call! I'd be happy to help out.